In a family oriented and gender biased society like Pakistan,
the super hit project, Thatta Kedona, demonstrated wisdom where not only local
values were preserved but also some new good values were introduced without
risking the resistance of villagers.
First of all was, ladies were bound to fulfill their daily
house chores and family obligations. They were allowed to take up as much work
as was manageable with it. If a lady let the family complain about her negligence
of domestic responsibilities, she wasn't given work.
As a result, men came to the support of their ladies when
they found them not only responsible at family matters but also an earning
hand. So, without gender gap or gender conflicts the project was carried out
successfully. Local skills were invested into more working and earning
opportunities that were part of the village culture.
Along with women folk, gents were also taught various skills
to earn better. Among the new skills, some families offered rooms of their
homes for the volunteer guests who came to teach the locals new skills. These volunteers
came around the year from different parts of the world and stayed at these
guest rooms where they were served with freshly cooked food. Though marriages took place in a conventional style, but at
the occasion each new couple (bride & groom) were gifted with a flower
plant. Similarly, at the birth of a new child, the parents of the newborn were presented
a fruit plant. That’s how each home became self-sufficient in having fragrant
flower and fruit trees.
Local women became confident through sharing the earning
burden. Prosperity let them take better care of not only themselves but also
they began to think about the education of their daughters. Education and health care facilities are among the new traditions
of the village Thatta Ghulamka Dheroka.

Yes, the better way to empower women is to liberate them financially.
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